SELF HELP FOR GAD & WORRY

Generalised Anxiety Disorder

 

Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is a general, long-lasting worry and anxiety about everyday life, about anything and everything. People with GAD imagine the worst happening (and worry about all the possible worst case scenarios). They believe future events are almost always negative, and they won't be able to cope 'when' these things 'do' happen. However, as in all anxiety, we tend to over-estimate the danger, and under-estimate our ability to cope.

GAD can feel overwhelming and can in some ways seem contagious.... it is often identified as the anxiety disorder that makes therapists worry and feel anxious during sessions! These resources are aimed at both GAD sufferers and therapists.

Vicious cogs of GAD

Worry is the main problem, but there are other specific aspects to the anxiety that occur with GAD (See the Vicious Cogs of GAD above): Worry about current problems and hypothetical situations, worry about worry, intolerance of uncertainty, cognitive avoidance and lack of problem solving skills. 

Therapy aims to target each of these smaller cogs that keep the main problem going.  Blank cogs PDF



WORRY

There are two main types of worry.

Type 1 worries relate to feared future events. These worries are further broken down (more info in The Worry Tree) into worries about:

  • Current problems (things I can do something about - and can therefore learn to problem solve)
  • Hypothetical situations (things I can't do anything about - and can therefore learn to react to differently)

Use The Worry Tree to help you deal with type 1 worries.

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Type 2 worries are "worry about worry" which can be both positive and negative.

  •  Negative beliefs about worry:
  • I might lose all control
  • The worry will drive me crazy


Positive beliefs about worry (the beliefs are negatively reinforced because the imagined feared event doesn't happen and we therefore don't discover that our beliefs are not true):

  • Worrying keeps me (and others) safe
  • Worrying helps me prepare for all the possible worst case scenarios
  • Worrying means I'm a caring person
  • Worrying means I'll cope better when the worst happens

We have up to 60,000 thoughts every day. Research (Leahy) tells us that 85% of the things we worry about have a positive or neutral outcome. Of the 15% that have a negative outcome, 80% of people said they handled the situation much better than they thought they would.

Use the Thought Record Sheet for Worry Beliefs to help you deal with type 2 worries.

Set Worry zones or postpone your worry to take control of your worry & discover that you don't need to worry all the time.

 




INTOLERANCE OF UNCERTAINTY

An 'intolerance of uncertainty' means that the person with GAD will worry about an imagined feared event as long as there is even the slightest risk of it happening.

Examples of thoughts:

  • There's always a risk of something terrible happening
  • I have to be 100% sure!
  • I can't tolerate not knowing
  • The worst could happen
  • Uncertain events are almost always negative


Example of a Vicious Cycle of Intolerance of Uncertainty

 

TOLERATING UNCERTAINTY

Use the APPLE acronym to help you deal with uncertainty.


ACKNOWLEDGE - Notice and acknowledge the uncertainty as it comes to mind.


PAUSE - Don't react as you normally do. Don't react at all. Just pause, and breathe.


PULL BACK - Tell yourself this is just the worry talking, and this apparent need for certainty is not helpful and not necessary. It is only a thought or feeling. Don't believe everything you think! Thoughts are not statements of fact.  What's the bigger picture?


LET GO - Let go of the thought or feeling about needing certainty. They will pass. You don't have to respond to them. You might imagine them floating away in a bubble or cloud.


EXPLORE - Explore the present moment, because right no, in this moment, all is well. Notice your breathing, and the sensations of breathing. Notice the ground beneath you. Look around and notice what you see, what you hear, what you can touch, what you can smell. Right now. Then, SHIFT YOUR FOCUS OF ATTENTION to something else - on what you need to do, on what you were doing before you noticed the worry, or do something else - mindfully, with your full attention.

APPLE: Mindful Response to Thoughts - video

 


 

Self Help for Generalised Anxiety Disorder and Worry VIDEO


 

Example of a vicious cycle of GAD & Worry

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SUMMARY

Therapy for GAD focuses on:

 



You can use STOPP skill to incorporate all these techniques, e.g

STOP - just pause for a moment

Take a breath - one slow deep breath

Observe - there's that worry again. My body is reacting to those thoughts and I feel anxious.

Pull back - this is just the mind bully / GAD talking. I don't have to react right now. Is this a current problem or one of those hypothetical situations? (Worry Tree) I can use APPLE technique for dealing with uncertainty. Another way of looking at this worry is... (The Helicopter View)

Practise and Proceed - What can I do right now? I can use APPLE (uncertainty), Worry Tree (type 1 worry), Thought Record Sheet for Worry Beliefs (type 2 "worry about worry"), Problem solving worksheet, Postpone my worry etc. Where can I put my focus of attention - what else can I do...?

 


 


GAD & Worry Self Help Guide - this page as PDF

Tolerating Uncertainty with APPLE

The Worry Tree

Vicious Cycle of Intolerance of Uncertainty  PDF (or webpage)

Flexible Thinking

Postponing Worry or Setting Worry Zones

Problem Solving

Thought Record Sheet for Worry Beliefs  PDF

Worry Record incorporating worry time PDF

Overcoming Avoidance

 


THE WORRY TREE mp3

(for dealing with worry)

Female voice, with music.

 28 mins 50
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TOLERATING UNCERTAINTY mp3

(for Generalised Anxiety Disorder)

Female voice, with music.

 22 mins
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THE MIND BULLY mp3

(for dealing with intrusive / distressing thoughts)

Female voice, with music.

 25 mins 30
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More Self Help MP3s

 

Self Help Books

Overcoming Worry and Generalised Anxiety Disorder

The Generalized Anxiety Disorder Workbook

How To Stop Worrying And Start Living



 

FACE Fear and Avoidance